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One Year Later

One year ago today we packed our last possessions into the VW Rabbit and closed the door on our old apartment never to return. That was the beginning of the First Big Ride and a memorable summer. There is a certain ache that is the result of not being able to do it all again this summer. We will do it again, that travel across the country with nothing but what fits in the car; but one can’t easily do it every year. Once again, we can’t recommend strongly enough that if you have the chance to do a long road trip like we did you absolutely should do it. There is nothing like the feeling of being totally free and answering to only your own imagination and flexibility in life, even if it is just for a few weeks or months. We had always figured that this summer would be home-based, but the summer of 2011 will be another grand excursion. The question at this point is whether it will be North American again or Europe. Stay tuned.

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The Trouble with Travels

I love to travel, but it has one huge, insurmountable drawback: it costs money. Yes, there are writers out there who claim you can travel for next to nothing but they are either outright lying or trying to sell you something; usually both. Yes you can and should spend much less than the average person when traveling but traveling costs money. You can talk a tough line of stoic bare-bones travel stories, going all Jack Kerouac or vagabonding but the reality is you need to pay to eat and pay to be someplace and pay to move from place to place, unless you walk or hitchhike–the former largely impractical, the latter fraught with perils. Money for travel is over and above the money for everyday life. You still have to pay rent or the mortgage at your home while you travel and keep the utilities on, pay insurance, etc. The Big Ride was possible because we were able to live without rent and utilities for three months, which is not something we can do every year. The budget will be much smaller, but one can’t not travel!

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What Does the Summer Bring?

It has been a long hard winter. We have been very busy and unfortunately saddled with too many colds and flu episodes. But the birds are returning and it might hit 60 degrees Thursday. Spring is here. At this time last year the idea for the Big Ride came to Paula and we spent a few weeks thinking about it seriously then nearly two months of planning. We are very glad we did it. But what about the coming summer?

Unfortunately, the full-blown Big Ride experience won’t happen again this summer. The first Big Ride was made possible because we were without an apartment for the summer, cutting down expenses. We actually spent about the same on the road as we would have staying in an apartment. This summer we have a lease on a nice house. Still, we simply have to have a good vacation, just not a three month jaunt around the continent. Paula is also leaning toward a stay-in-one-place vacation after last year and I can’t blame her for that.

But the idea will not die. The exchange rates are bad this year, but some day we hope to have the Big Ride experience in Europe–several months traveling through Europe. This summer I am leaning toward a week-long baseball trip, maybe four or more cities out east seeing games. Paula isn’t into baseball. So three or four weeks rather than three months is probably what we will do this summer. But hey, we’re open minded.

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Back Where We Started – But Still Going

We have come full circle. We are back in the Chicago area. Ironically our hotel is next door to the restaurant where we ate breakfast the June 1st morning we left on our Big Ride. We didn’t plan that, it just turned out that way. It fits with how our whole journey has gone – no matter what has happened it has always turned out good. We have flowed and landed repeatedly in unexpected ways, often times ending up in much better circumstances than if we had followed our original plans and expectations. Success has been a product less of good planning and more of being open and flexible. People often ask us what we have learned from our journey. The best answer we have to that is that we learned how much more we can do and be when we let go of restraints and be open to possibilities and that impermanence is okay – that we are fundamentally alright no matter the details.

Though we are back in Chicagoland (the new term starts today) the journey never ends. We still have stories to tell and photos to post and the Big Ride this summer was a beginning to many more journeys to come. We may be back where we started but we are seeing this place different people and our lives back here will be much different and we have no doubt that it will be much better.

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Be a Traveler Not a Tourist

Anthony Bourdain exhorts people to be a traveler not a tourist; meaning don’t be a sheep being lead around by what others say are the sites to see and things to do—instead, make your own journey. We mentioned Gatlinburg, TN in an earlier post. Such a place is for tourists who want to have their travel experience prepackaged and made available for them with a minimum of thought and effort on their part. The idea of tourism is to follow the crowds and do what they are doing; after all, is that not what one should do? Nearly every traveling destination has two layers. It is easy to find the top layer, the superficial one for the tourists. This is the lowest common dominator level encouraging people to aspire to mediocrity; a homogenized, prepackaged morass of restaurants, souvenir shops, faux museums, and other claptrap designed to separate a dumb tourist from their money. Every derisive meaning of the words “tourist” and “tourist trap” is appropriate.

The tourist experience is not an authentic experience. If you want to experience a place, you have to move past or around the tourist façade into where the locals are. Avoid “tourist guides” or pamphlet racks. Ask around as to where the locals go, shop, and eat, or just start walking around and explore. That’s where you will find an authentic experience of the place you are visiting. And isn’t that why you traveled all that way? Did you travel all of those miles just to eat at a TGI McFunsters (phrase copyrighted Anthony Bourdain) or Taco Bell? Get off the main streets and walk around the side streets to see more of how the locals live.

Another thing you may want to avoid are tours. Many tourist destinations, especially big cities have tours. If you are pressed for time or have difficulties getting around they may be a good option for you, but you can see so much more if you are out and about on your own. We have seen so many things that aren’t within sight of the tour busses. Plus, going on the tour means giving up control of your time. Not on the tour you can see the sights at your own pace and if you see something over there that interests you, you can go over and see it.

Ultimately it is a question of who controls your vacation. You are welcome to give your vacation over to the control of a tour guide or corporate tourism but you have so many more possibilities if you retain control yourself. The philosopher Antonio Machado said, “Traveler, there is no path. Paths are made by walking.” Make your own path. Be a traveler not a tourist.

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